Teaching Your Child Healthy Sleep Habits

This week on my maternity feature I would like to introduce you to Certified Sleep Sense TM Consultant Chelsea LePage of Snug as a Bug Sleep Consulting. Chelsea works with you one on one to develop a plan to teach your child healthy sleep habits and get you on the road to a great nights sleep. I sat down with Chelsea a few weeks ago and she was so kind to share with us 7 shortcuts to teaching our children healthy sleep habits. Here’s what she had to say:


As a Professional Infant and Child Sleep Consultant I’ve gotten used to people asking me what the secret is to getting a baby to sleep through the night.  Of course, there is no ONE secret, teaching a child healthy sleep habits is a combination of lots of different things.  But that doesn’t mean that there aren’t some shortcuts, either! With that in mind, today I’d like to share with you 7 different shortcuts you can start trying over the next few nights to get your child sleeping better.  Let’s get right to it:


Sleep Shortcut #1: Watch the waking hours

One of the BIGGEST enemies of sleep especially for babies and toddlers is over tiredness and many parents are surprised to learn just how soon their children get overtired!  Here’s a quick guide to how long your child should be awake between naps during the day:

  •  Newborns (0-12 weeks): 45 minutes of awake time
  •  3-5 months: 1.5-2 hours of awake time
  •  6-8 months: 2-3 hours of awake time
  •  9-12 months: 3-4 hours of awake time
  •  13 months to 2.5 years: 5-6 hours of awake time

If you make sure that your child is put down for naps BEFORE they get overtired, you will find that they fall asleep more easily at nap time AND that they are more relaxed at bedtime, too!


 Sleep Shortcut #2: Don’t Be Afraid of the Dark

We humans (babies and toddlers included) sleep better in the dark.  Try making your child’s room as dark as possible. (I recommend using blackout blinds, taping cardboard over the windows, or whatever it takes!) In many cases, even the glow from a nightlight or a digital alarm clock can be enough to disrupt your child’s sleep cycle! BONUS TIP: Try to keep your child’s room as dark as possible during daytime naps, too. This can often make a BIG difference in how long your child will nap during the day!


 Sleep Shortcut #3: Be Predictable (And a Little Boring)

Babies and toddlers love predictable routines. And a predictable bedtime routine (lasting no longer than 30 minutes) is a great way to let your child know when the time for sleep is coming. A typical bedtime routine for a baby might look something like this:

  •  – Bath (5 minutes)
  •  -put on pajamas (5 minutes)
  •  -read a story or sing some songs (10 minutes)
  •  -nursing or bottle (10 minutes)

Make sure that this routine is the same every single time. Remember, you want bedtime to be as predictable as possible for your child! After your bedtime routine is complete, be boring. Lots of children will try to drag out bedtime by playing games, throwing toys out of the crib, standing up, etc. Don’t participate. If your child has thrown their blanket or favourite stuffed toy out of the crib, calmly return the item without saying a word. Be boring, and the games shouldn’t last too long!


 Sleep Shortcut #4: Feed AFTER Naps, Not Before

For a lot of babies and toddlers, the single biggest reason they don’t sleep well has to do with a feeding-sleep association.  In other words, your child has linked the ideas of feeding and sleeping. They think that they need a bottle or nursing BEFORE they can fall asleep. By feeding right after nap time instead of before you can help your child break this feeding-sleep association. IMPORTANT NOTE: This strategy should only be used before naps, not before putting your child to bed for the night. (A full tummy is needed to make sure your child doesn’t wake up hungry during the night!)


Sleep Shortcut #5: Same Place, Same Time

Remembering that our children love predictability, it’s a good idea to have your child sleep in the same place at the same time every day.  This means that nap time should happen in the same place as night time sleep rather than in car seats, strollers, your lap at the coffee shop, etc. For many parents simply changing WHERE their child naps during the day can improve the length and quality of night time sleep.  BONUS TIP: When you are putting your child to sleep for the night, it’s good idea to make sure that they fall asleep where you want them to stay asleep.  In other words, if your child falls asleep in your arms on the couch and then wakes up during the night in a completely different place (like their crib), chances are they’ll be surprised and start crying to let you know about it!


Sleep Shortcut #6: Try the 1, 2, 3 System

When your child wakes up during the night or during a nap and starts crying or fussing, try to wait a specific length of time before going in to check on them.  The first day you try this, I recommend waiting exactly one minute before going in to check on your child. On the second day, wait two minutes. Three minutes on the third day, and so on. Why? Well, everyone (babies and toddlers included) will wake up briefly at the end of each 45-minute sleep cycle.  Most adults wake so briefly that we don’t even remember in the morning. But children who haven’t learned to fall asleep independently need a little longer.  The 1, 2, 3 System gives your child the opportunity to get themselves back to sleep without your help. And once your child has learned this skill, you’re home free!


Sleep Shortcut #7: Take Five

Before you put your child to bed (for naps or at night time), make sure the five-minute period before they are put to bed is very calm and relaxing.  No throwing your toddler in the air or watching TV or tickle fights in the five minutes immediately before bed. IMPORTANT NOTE: I totally encourage tickle fights and any other kinds of rowdy fun you can think of with your children. It’s fun for the whole family! Just NOT in the five minutes before bed. (Right after waking up is a great time to play!)


The Next Step? Like I said, these are shortcuts or quick tricks that, for some parents, are the missing piece of the puzzle that gets their child sleeping through the night. And while I hope that you’ll be one of the lucky parents who is able to solve their children’s sleep problems using one of these tricks, I’m also here for you if you need a little more guidance. If you are interested in personal, 1-on-1 support and a fully-customized sleep plan created to suit your family I offer a variety of private consultations. You can visit my website www.snugasabugsleeping.com for more information or contact me directly for a free 15 minute assessment at: chelsea@snugasabugsleeping.com

Check back next week to catch our bath time essentials!

Xo. Andria

7 thoughts on “Teaching Your Child Healthy Sleep Habits

  • December 9, 2014 at 9:38 pm

    Great tips! I wish I had known these with my first, they make such a big difference, give or take a little with what works best for your family.

  • December 10, 2014 at 10:25 am

    I’ve always had issues with sleep with my little ones, especially my daughter who seems to have inherited my own tendency toward insomnia. Helpful tips!

  • December 10, 2014 at 10:56 am

    Love this. I hadn’t thought about the kids being overtired. I’ll remember next time I try to run “just one more errand.”

  • December 10, 2014 at 1:15 pm

    These are great tips for a new mom. I wish I would have known this when my kids were younger.

  • December 10, 2014 at 10:36 pm

    Wow, those are some great tips! I think tip #1 and #3 are the most important for Amelia’s bed time routine.

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